So is it better to be "sexy" than "innocent"?
It is not an example of positive character for a woman in real life. Women are not to command a man through his sex drive; in fact to be blunt it may be why Scripture tells women to "honor" men; but men to "love" women!
It may (to adults) please a man's flesh, but in that respective, it demeans the woman as well. She, through enticement, "controls" the man's desire to be loved, and simply put (again) love is more than sex!
It is a commitment between two Christians to serve Christ that blesses the union of the two together, not a desire to spend that time together in a repetitive fashion that creates either a commitment towards each other or a commitment towards Christ.
more later ...
Resources for Christians that can NOT distinguish between a film and reality }
http://www.christiananswers.net/q-eden/sexaddictiontips.html
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